I quess every new year's day I try to pick up my blogs. Hoping to keep my new year's resolution longer than one day, but every year I notice that it lasted only one day. Some blogs even never got published . But the best thing out of it, is that I can read back what my thoughts were and realize how I've matured as a person. This is something I wrote several years back:
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There are phases in life, where you will come to a point that decisions need to be made, paths be chosen and no pressure....course of your life need to be set. However everybody gets a certain preview of how life will be or could be, but nobody gets a How-to on any of this. Unless you have someone that has paved your path and your throne is waiting for you at a certain point in your life, you'll have to face these important points in your life.
However some parents might want to try to prepare you for it, but there's just no way they can see in the future what obstacles you might face. They do what they believe is right; save money for a great education, try to inspire you towards a bright future, some even believe pointing you towards their ideal job is what's best for you. But maybe it's just me, but don't we all come to a point where we have a feeling we're wasting our time? I've experienced it twice in my life. Once was when I graduated from pre-college and had to decide what to study. Soon enough I had to admit that the chosen major was nothing for me at all. Now I graduated from college, I face the same struggle again.
I thought getting older and wiser would take that away, but somehow it just seemed worse.
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After graduating valedictorian of my year, I felt lost. Lost because I didn't know what my next goal is or should be. I've always worked out of survival. Even now...I'm not sure I love my job, but I feel challenged and that's good enough for now.
I dont know why, but I have a feeling 2020 is going to be a game changer for me. I hate to have expectations, because I hate it more to get disappointed, but this feels like something big is coming my way and without reason I'm feeling excited. And for those who are still lost, sometimes it's ok to let yourself go and just let the flow take you where you're supposed to be.
